My very favorite meeting!

Yesterday, Sun and I watched the General Young Women's Meeting with a friend and her 12 year-old daughter.  I love that meeting!  When I watch that meeting, I am always reminded that I am a daughter of God, who loves me.  I hear how God feels about His daughters, always.  Even when I am not serving with the youth, I listen to the meeting because of the feelings I have while I watch it.  Yesterday was no different.  Here is the link if you want to watch the entire meeting.

This is an amazing little video they showed illustrating a young woman preparing to attend the temple and being reminded throughout her preparation of the covenants she has made and the ones she hopes to make.  It is absolutely beautiful!  Enjoy:

A Crisis of Faith

photo credit:  beyondtherisk.com

 Within the last year or so, a few of my family/friends have made major life decisions that have lead them away from the gospel.  These were all endowed people who at one time had a current temple recommend.  Because my contact with them was not consistent, to me, their decisions seemed 'out of the blue' and not in harmony with their personality/character.

I pondered for quite awhile how these decisions just 'came out of no where.'  Then I recalled a few principles:

• Big decisions never come out of no where.  People have been pondering them for some time.  They may never share their thoughts with anyone and so it seems 'out of nowhere,' but it never is...
• Lucifer works on our thoughts as much, if not more than our actions.  Actions are only thoughts put in motion.  For as he ^athinketh in his ^bheart, so is he...(Proverbs 23:7)
• It is possible to 'sin' in the way we think....  But behold, hearken ye unto me, and know that by the help of the all-powerful Creator of heaven and earth I can tell you concerning your thoughts, how that ye are beginning to labor in sin, which sin appeareth very abominable unto me, yea, and abominable unto God.  (Jacob 2:5)  Also, added to this thought is the scripture from Alma 30:11 which teaches:  For there was a law that men should be judged according to their crimes. Nevertheless, there was no law against a man’s belief; therefore, a man was punished only for the crimes which he had done; therefore all men were on ^aequal grounds.  Even today, church discipline is not enacted for beliefs, but behavior.  However, it is clear from the verse in Jacob, the prophet refers to the people as 'beginning to labor in sin, which sin....'  Thus even though the people may not be sanctioned for their thoughts, they are certainly being cautioned and told they need to change their thoughts.
• We have a responsibility to monitor or 'police' our thoughts.  President Monson in April 2010 General Conference quoted President McKay, "President David O. McKay, ninth President of the Church, advised, “I implore you to think clean thoughts.” He then made this significant declaration of truth: “Every action is preceded by a thought. If we want to control our actions, we must control our thinking.” Brethren, fill your minds with good thoughts, and your actions will be proper. May each of you be able to echo in truth the line from Tennyson spoken by Sir Galahad: “My strength is as the strength of ten, because my heart is pure.” ⁷

So how can we avoid a similar crisis of faith??

• Pray.  Prayer is the act of bringing the will of the child in line with the will of the Father. (I know I heard this in General Conference, but could not find the quote...I will keep looking.)  For if ye would hearken unto the Spirit which teacheth a man to pray, ye would know that ye must pray; for the evil spirit teacheth not a man to pray, but teacheth him that he must not pray.(2nd Nephi 32:8)  Prayer is basically sharing our thoughts with God.  If done regularly and if we are listening, God will eventually share some of His thoughts with us---especially those that affect us and in areas where we need to change.
• Read the scriptures and study the words of the prophets.  Reading the scriptures will keep us in tune with the Spirit of the Lord and we will gain insights into how the Lord thinks and feels about specific things.
• Recognize area/ideas where you may not completely agree with a doctrine of the gospel or position of the church.  Read what the prophets and the scriptures say about the topic.  Pray for understanding and an open heart.  If after participating in this process, you still have not reconciled this discrepancy, agree to put the issue 'on the shelf.'  Recognize that you may not have all of the information on this issue, but having a question does not negate the other truths you already know.  Choose to have the faith necessary to be patient and to allow time and learning to possibly bring reconciliation to light.  Choose to remain faithful in what you know and exercise your faith that a loving Father in Heaven will eventually bring understanding and light to you in His time.
• If you recognize your consistency in prayer, scripture study, or church attendance has waned, agree to recommit to those behaviors today.  Do not wait until tomorrow.  Elder Eyring, October 1999: 
  "And so Satan tempts with procrastination throughout our days of probation. Any choice to delay repentance gives him the chance to steal happiness from one of the spirit children of our Heavenly Father.
  
  
  We have all been tempted with that delay. We know from our own experience that President Spencer W. Kimball was right when he wrote, “One of the most serious human defects in all ages is procrastination,” and then he defined it: “an unwillingness to accept personal responsibility now” (The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, ed. Edward L. Kimball [1982], 48; emphasis in original). And so Satan works on both our desire to think we have no cause to repent and our desire to push anything unpleasant into the future. He has tempted you and me, and those we love, with thoughts like this: “God is so loving; surely He won’t hold me personally responsible for mistakes which are simply the result of being human.” And then, if that fails, there is the thought that will almost surely come: “Well, I may be responsible to repent, but this is not a good time to start. If I wait, later will be better.”
  
  
  There are some truths which expose those lies intended to tempt us to procrastinate repentance." 
• Remember that none of us are so strong that we cannot fall.  Behaviors begin with thoughts.  When we neglect our spiritual duties or do not monitor and change our 'wrong thinking,' we leave the door open for our own crisis of faith. 

O be wise; what can I say more? (Jacob 6:12)




PS...check out Heather's five for Friday here

A few random moments I want to remember!

My babies do not like to have feet in their pajamas.  I keep thinking each kid will like the pj's with feet.  We buy new ones (or used ones at the thrift shop).  I make them wear them with the feet for a week or so until the baby just absolutely refuses to put them on.  Then I remember that they don't like the feet.  I finally give in and cut them out.  Then my babies will wear their jammies without complaint.  I think it is just because my boys (in particular) have really big, sweaty feet, even as babies.  I wish I would just accept that and as soon as I bring the pj's home, just cut the feet out and save a week of complaining!  Some day this mother will learn.

I went outside the other day to pick up what I thought was an underwear waistband. .....Well it was that.  I couldn't believe it was just out in the backyard, lying around.  When I actually picked it up,

THIS is what I found:

A sling shot.  Yes, one of my boys tore the underwear waistband off of his underwear and made a sling shot out of it.  Where do they come up with these things??  It is actually held to the band with little nails.  Don't you just love the ingenuity??  I'm sorry, your mother will not purchase a slingshot for you because, well, you're a boy and we all know what will happen with that.  So you'll make one of your own out of your underwear!  You must be a boy scout!

Speedy's epic fruit master piece:

Yesterday after church, Spike, Spike and I were hanging out eating a bag of popcorn.  It was just me and him.  It was so cute to watch him stuff four to five pieces into his tiny little mouth, to kick back onto the couch and just enjoy hanging out with me.  I could picture him as a teen doing the exact same thing, only I probably could not share the couch with him because he would take up the entire thing.  But I just love those moments when you can see into their personality and imagine them a few years older and see in your mind, their development.  I JUST LOVE BEING A MOTHER!

And then there is this beauty:

Her missionary papers are almost in, probably this week!  We are so glad to have her home for a few months before her service!  We love you!!

Paper is not Dead

I saw the most hilarious video this morning!

Watch and Enjoy!

Sooooo sweet!

NOT Mother of the Year!

Since Saturday evening, I have been really sick----fever, congestion, sore throat, tired, just plain yuck!  Sunday morning I decided I was too sick to attend church services.  We decided it would be wisest for the baby to stay home with me, since my husband has to be on the stand at the front of the congregation (because he is currently serving as the Bishop of the ward) and that left the children on the bench by themselves.

The family had been gone about an hour.  I had just finished reading Cocoa's post about accepting the nomination as Young Mother of the Year in Nevada and some of the other great women who will be honored at the national convention.  The baby had been watching Winnie the Pooh (TV and computer are in the same room).  I decided I had enough energy to fold a load of laundry.  The baby helped me get it out of the dryer.  I sat down in the TV room and started folding.  I noticed that the baby got quiet, but just figured he had found something interesting in one of the bedrooms.

When I was just about finished folding the laundry (10 minutes max), I thought, "I had really better find out what that baby is up to."  I went down the hallway to see if he was in the bedrooms or if, heaven forbid, someone had left one of the bathroom doors open and he was in the toilet.  He wasn't in the bedrooms, or the bathrooms.  By this time I am calling his name and starting to stress a little.  I noticed the front door wasn't shut all the way and thought, "Oh no, I hope he didn't go out the front door."  As I approached, I could see some strange man outside on the sidewalk holding my baby and a police officer. 

I threw the door open and said, "Yes! That's my baby!"  The nice man brought the baby to me, as the officer was explaining that the baby was just about to cross the street.  I said to the baby, "Where have you been?" relief in my voice.  The man repeated my words and then said this to me, "I wouldn't let my little dogs get out in a situation like that lady!" giving me a stern look over the top of his sunglasses.  He thanked the officer and then got into his truck and drove away.

The officer, of course, wanted to know my last name, then my first name, then to tell me how much peril the baby had been in and that I may want to consider changing the door knobs on my front door so the baby can't do that again.  I brought the baby in the house, chained the front door, sat down and cried for about 1/2 an hour.  It was only then that I thought, "Gee, it's a really good thing your dogs can't open the front door!"

Anyway, I do not think I will be winning any awards for motherhood any time soon.  Plus, since I am still feeling nasty, I think I'll get myself to the doctor today.  Thanks for listening.